“When the men leave us, they dump us for the worst version of us” – 60-Year-Old Woman Reveals Ex-Husband Has Married Five Wives in 10 Years After Leaving Their Marriage

A 60-year-old Nigerian woman, Doyinsola A. Ilori, has shared that her ex-husband has married five different women in the ten years since he abandoned their marriage and later divorced her.

Doyinsola made the revelation in a Facebook post on Tuesday, December 2, while commenting on the public clash between a singer and his wife, Natasha. She reflected on her own experience, recalling how she once considered leaving her marriage due to constant fighting and infidelity but stayed for the sake of their children, even though the relationship had become loveless.

However, when her husband eventually chose to walk away, she said he did so without any thought for the family he was leaving behind. According to her, when she urged him to consider how the divorce would affect their children, he bluntly told them that his happiness mattered more than theirs before leaving.

“On Tuface, I dare to say, tueh… Most times for us women, including my humble self, when the men leave us, I mean our husbands and boyfriends, they dump us for the worst version of us, she wrote.

“By the time this reality hits them, shame would not let them admit to their colossal error. You know how men leave now, they blow everything to smithereens. Wn ti bal j kj sorry Then they turn around to console themselves with us regretting leaving our marriages because of their disrespect, while they fail to mention that they have been trying to replace us without success since then. I don’t know about yours o, but mine has married 5 other women in 10 years, post absconding and divorce.

“If any of them better pass me, he for don stop. I did 15 years before he comot. Married 5 different women in 10 years!!! Na 7 he dey go. (Kay, Oya k bet with me.) The 7 sef, na him children I pity, otherwise, he for change wife till he kpai at any age ni. PS: Tuface dey kraze, he no well. Na laff Annie suppose dey laff him family now. Sebi na she, dem say she no good, and dem no like. Make dem dey manage Natasha now n. Na so I laff my ex husbands family, when only two years after he married that d3ad lady, they started chanting, gb Iya Bb gan o le t’eyii.