Any lady who derives joy in sending gatemen on errands is not going to be a good woman for you or your home – Nigerian OAP tells men
Abuja OAP, Evelyn Nneka Obasi, has cautioned men to be mindful of “lazy women who will turn them into errand boys under the guise of love or romance.”
In a post she shared on Facebook, she described those women as ”Lazy”. According to her any woman who respects her man serves him
She wrote;
“Any young lady who derives joy in sending gatemen or security men on errands for something they should do for themselves is not going to be a good woman for you or your home,
Go and hear their stories of how some of your girlfriends send them to buy pads and wash clothes including their pants for them. They start with ,help me go fill my gas. From there, it becomes a norm. This is a very easy way to spot a woman who will enslave you in the house if you don’t have money or who will treat a maid poorly.
They are very lazy women! The type who will seize every opportunity to demean you and turn you to vegetables. And, I am telling you that those errands that your woman sends you randomly even when she is doing nothing and calls it “love or romance”. There are men they will never try it with because they value and respect such men.
The moment you start hearing ” Baby, can you buy me this and that” or “bring this and that” and it is consistent. Retrace and reclaim your frame. That is how it starts.
A lot of women who value and respect their man serve that man. You will never hear them or see them send him on an errand of any sort. They attach so much “reverence” to him.
Don’t allow them turn you to “meme” whom they will use to write stories of how their man is the most caring and intentional man because he allows himself to be treated like a houseboy, gateman or security man.
Right from the beginning, women have always been “power drunk” and “control f*reaks”. They don’t handle these things well. Everyone suffers in the hands of such a woman.
