Why I had abortions at 19 and 24 – BBNaija Phyna reveals
Winner of the Big Brother Season 7 reality show, Phyna has shared reasons why she had two abortions at 19 and 24 respectively. She revealed this in an interview with PUNCH.
She was asked about her tweet where she responded to a Twitter user calling her an “abortionist” by admitting she has had two abortions.
She said; “I was in a 12-year relationship then and I was so young. The first abortion was when I was 19; I couldn’t go home to tell my parents that I was pregnant at that age. And the two pregnancies were so early like two to three weeks that I could just use tablets.
“The second was when I was 24, and I had finished serving then. I was ready to keep it but the relationship was getting toxic. He abused me and always beat me up. I said to myself that I couldn’t do this anymore, so I took it out and that was how I ended the relationship.”
Asked if she would consider an abortion with her current status, she said: “Why would I do that? The way I am now, I have money to take care of 10 children, so why? In fact, if my parents were rich at the time of my first pregnancy, I wouldn’t have aborted it. But because I knew I was from a very poor background, we used to eat once a day then, especially in the afternoon and then carry it till the next day. So, keeping the baby then, was no option for me.
“In the face of God, it’s a sin and I have prayed and gone for confession. I am Catholic and I know God has forgiven me. It is what God says that counts. I don’t care what anybody thinks or says. I am not proud of committing abortion but the situation surrounding it was what I couldn’t help. For me, I do not see the essence of bringing children into this world when you are not ready. So, it’s either you abstain from sex, use protection or when it happens; you are either ready to chest the baby or take it out, especially when the situation is beyond you. Everybody has their own purpose behind their actions, just that there are some who are not scared of committing abortions at all, which is not good.”
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…………
At the age of 19 years when you ought to have been in virgin
So, you are boosting of having an abortion, shior
Even, if your parents don’t have money, you should have kept it then
I hope Almighty God will forgive you as you seek for his forgiveness