“Some ladies don’t believe us and think we are impotent” – Nigerian man reveals he is a ‘virgin’

A facebook user, Julius Chinagorom Chukwu has revealed that he is still proudly a ‘virgin’ and is not ashamed about being one.

He shared this on a Christian Facebook group. According to him, some ladies do not believe men when they say they are virgins.

He disclosed that he ended his previous relationship because he and his ex-girlfriend don’t share same opinion on premarital sex.

He further noted that asides from the fear of HIV and other STD’s, unwanted Pregnancy, there are benefits he has experienced as a virgin.

He wrote; “Some ladies don’t believe us because we are male (no blood or hymen to proof), cos some of us are handsome and unbelievable to be, they think we are impotent or would have premature ejaculation….which are all lies.

It is conditioning of mindset. It is not as if we don’t have erection or sexual urge….we do very well. Sometimes my morning erection stays too long that I have to take a very cold shower and play gospel song to calm down the tension.

In my previous relationship I had to prove a point to let her know I am not impotent and not naive to romance(she was surprised of how good I am yet avoided penetration). I had to end the relationship cos we are not compatible mentally especially on premarital sex.

Aside fear of STI, STD, HIV, unwanted pregnancy etc, there are benefits I have experienced as a virgin. 

I am physically strong and resilient and determined for my mental state is wired to focus as well as my neural system on a well performing state.

Spiritually, my subconsciousness and consciousness is heightened. I get informed through dreams or gut feeling cos my instinct is stirred and at alert.